Sandra Margaret Gail

1944 - 2013

Daughter * Sister * Mother * Friend * Rebel * Survivor

Sandra at age 20
Our beautiful Mom at age 20
"So many tangles in life are ultimately hopeless that we have no appropriate sword other than laughter."
Gordon W. Allport

    Sandra's Life timeline:

  • 1944 - Born Aug 19th to Charolette Hamilton
  • 1946 - Younger brother was born
  • 1948 - Given up for adoption to Henry and Anna Lancaster, her Uncle and Aunt. Her brother was adopted by another family and lived on the farm across the road.
  • 1960 - Re-connected with her birth mother who had two more children, Kim age of 11 and Cameron 10 at the time.
  • 1962 - Left home and married Maurice Christoff, a volatile yet charming man.
  • 1964 - Had first child named Kelly. The above picture was taken days after at her mothers home
  • 1966 - Gave birth to her second child, a son named John.
  • 1968 - Gave birth to her last child, a daughter named Tabitha (That's me!)
  • 1977 - Left her abusive marriage and raised us while working two jobs
  • 1986 - Reluctantly marries second husband Stuart Aylesworth
  • 1990 - Diagnosed with Breast Cancer and begins radiation treatment
  • 1991 - Divorces her cheating husband and beats her cancer
  • 1994 - Marries the love of her life, Bob Lee
  • 1995 - Becomes a widow as Bob loses his battle with Melanoma
  • 2011 - Diagnosed with stage four Breast Cancer and begins chemotherapy
  • 2013 - Passed away Aug 11th

She had a brief time struggling to learn how to use social media. Take a peek at Sandra Lee's attempt at Facebook!